Want

We prefer to be told sugar-coated ideals and optimistic thoughts. We like the people who try to make us happy. But the words that stick with us are the ones that hurt. And we're hurt because we either are insecure about what has been said or we are afraid of what has been said. Words only hurt when they reveal something uncomfortable. For some swearing reveals discomfort. For others it may be lustful imagery. And for others the talk of grades or timeliness may have the same affect. But no matter what, we seem to throw aside the petty pep talks in exchange for the harsher, yet more penetrating words.

We want to be told everything is alright. And it can be a good thing when the emotions of misery and desperation overtake everything. But we need to stop. We can live life pretending that a few words will fix all our problems. Kind actions speak so much louder than words. Meaningful, yet terse statements make for more impact than verbose and eloquent speeches. Yes, there are times for beautiful language, but sometimes we spend too much time with our heads in the clouds pretending everything will be fixed with pretty words that we lose touch with the ground.

So please I hope that I can detract from the want for unsustainable fluff, and accept the criticisms, realities, and discomforts of the world. If not I will only be more fearful of the world.




And fear holds us all back.

"Headlock" Imogen Heap